Dear readers! All!
I am Bettye, the mother in law!
So sorry for the confusion. We had this all of the tIme.
When they married 30 years ago, my friends asked if, after four children, my husband, also John S. Harwell (1930-2010) asked if we had Finally decided to get married.
Betty was wife to my son, John, and will be sorely missed.
Thanks for your concern. I am 85 and hope to continue being the matriarch of this clan
Bettye W. Harwell